- the program is designed for this specific teen or tween, not vice versa
- the teen is the chrysalis of his or her adult self.
- as the program began, the teen set forth personal goals or benchmarks
- the mentor, with his or her greater knowledge, perspective, and life experience tweeks the program to this teen's needs
- the mentor meetings provide a structure in which to remain focused and accountable
- the mentor meetings help the mentor focus on the teen
- the mentor meetings help the teen focus on the program
- what is working?
- what is not working?
- should something be dropped?
- should something be added?
- what can the mentor provide that will help the teen?
- what can the teen do that will create success, energy, proficiency?
The demi-god must acquire or cultivate certain qualities before his or her innate gifts can be useful.
These include
- self control
- patience
- sense of humor
- people skills
- diplomacy skills
- leadership skills
- dependability
- perceptiveness
- integrity
- responsible
The mentor might point out to the teen instances of integrity, dependability, people skills, and so forth. The mentor will help the teen ask him or herself questions involving these and other values or virtues. Was I being / am I being honest, cheerful, etc.?
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